Care Registries

My End-of-Life Plan (Part 2): Vigil Planning

Read Part 1 of My End-of-Life Plan: Create a Comfortable Environment   Every great party needs a pregame. For me, vigil sitting would be the ultimate pregame, before the grand finale – my celebration of life (aka funeral)! It will be exclusive – invitations only, and only best behavior allowed. Joking aside, I view vigil […]

March 12, 2025

My End-of-Life Plan (Part 1): Creating a Comfortable Environment

Nothing in life is certain except death and taxes, so goes the saying. We grumble through taxes year after year, because we don’t want to be on the naughty list of the IRS. Death and dying, on the other hand, has no agency of its own. Without its nudging, we find ourselves avoiding all contact […]

January 21, 2025

Discussing Final Wishes with Aging Parents: A Guide to Legacy and Acceptance

My father is 75. Despite his decent genetics, growing up in 1950s China wasn’t exactly a health retreat. Famine, political movements, and poverty took their toll before he even turned 18. But to his credit, he spent the rest of his life trying to compensate—regular exercise, a balanced diet, and an unwaveringly positive attitude. I […]

January 13, 2025

Embracing Death, Embracing Life: Ryan’s Journey

Ryan was 17 when he was diagnosed with cancer.  It would have been devastating to anyone at any age, let alone a senior in high school, full of hopes and dreams for the future. The days following the news, Ryan and his parents waited for biopsy results in agony. Then one night, Ryan woke up […]

December 18, 2024

The Doctor Who Was Fired For Supporting Medical Aid In Dying

Imagine facing terminal cancer and being forced to live through unbearable pain every day. But instead of praying for your suffering to end soon,  you can reclaim your final days – deciding when and how to die with dignity and peace, and to spare your family from unnecessary emotional pain as well.  For Dr. Barbara […]

December 11, 2024

When should you start end-of-life planning?

Many people ask when to start end-of-life planning. The answer is simple: any time is a good time. The Importance of Planning Life is unpredictable. We can never know what the next minute, hour, or day might bring. End-of-life planning allows us to make informed decisions about our care and legacy before time or illness […]

December 2, 2024